"Since I have also noticed under these vlogs in the comments that the men are all like, “Oh man; I can’t believe that happened”; “Colombia is so dangerous”. I write, “maybe not come for a hooker and blow, and you will be fine”. So they are not happy with me."

You nailed it right there! What place or country is going to still be "safe" if you're looking for prostitutes and/or drugs? And if you get arrested in a foreign country where you don't know the language and laws?